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△ 284｜Is the elephant stuffed with a bowling ball?
Obviously, this is not a serious topic, but it has to be serious and serious.
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According to the size of the elephant, if he wants to do the “beading” operation, the small steel ball obviously doesn’t match his “behemoth”, so is it necessary to consider a larger “bead” to match the “equal proportion” visual effect? ? But the question is, why do elephants have to be implanted? ——Okay, this is the end of the explanation of the topic. If there are “uncommon words”, it is recommended to search by yourself. It is not convenient to give an overly detailed explanation here.
With the “elimination” of the circle of friends, there are few “samples” of “spiritual cleanliness” around me. On the one hand, it is because they really don’t fit my aura, and on the other hand, I really can’t control myself. Torment the inner world of mental cleanliness, and use it as a research “sample” for pleasure, so over time, no mental cleanliness is willing to be my experimental object. Of course, it’s impossible to discuss the topic “Is the elephant stuffed into the bead a bowling ball?” with friends who are mentally clean. They even see the word “in the bead”, and they can make up that a promiscuous man is against him. All kinds of betrayals made by their love and loyalty, and even the physical phenomenon of nausea and nausea in severe cases – however, this example is a bit inappropriate, because it is closer to the category of “sexual cleanliness”.
The reason why I have an uncontrollable “sadistic pleasure” for “mental cleanliness” is because I used to be a standard “mental cleanliness”, enjoying the “masochistic pleasure” of restraining and restraining myself – the so-called , Every S actually has a full M in the heart, so they will know which joint of the spine the sadistic whip falls on, in order to bring about a real spiritual orgasm.
Compared with myself as a case, mental cleanliness (including sexual cleanliness) does not seem so “sick”.
For example, I used to be the “perfect object” for other people’s emotional confessions, so all kinds of people like to tell me all kinds of things they encounter in the emotional world. Since there is no reasonable way to vent, these emotions of the same feeling will always be repeated in my spiritual world, and even predict the various bullshit plots that it will follow. So when this threshold was reached, I started to fear getting attention from the emotional world. For a long time, I laughed at myself as a “cat” character. I didn’t want to get too much attention in my relationship, and I wanted my every move to be guessed. This kind of twisting is the most common situation of mental cleanliness. The combined effect of exclusivity and sympathy makes mental cleanliness spread from emotional needs to more areas – such as unwillingness to accept opinions that are different from your own.
This is my example, there is no joy in the succession, then let’s talk about a case that I can publish anonymously with permission. This girl is a typical victim of mixed doubles of “sexuality and spiritual cleanliness”. Twisting reached the extreme in her – she had a strong desire for sex, but she also had all kinds of “extensible” fears of sex. For example, she will allow her boyfriend who has been in a relationship for 5 years but is unwilling to marry each other to “get into the pearl” to satisfy her pleasure, but at the same time, she will have a very strong sense of disgust. This kind of disgust is not for herself, but for her boyfriend after “getting into the pearl”. She feels that she will get more pleasure because of this “setting”, so will he get more women because of his sexual ability? Favored, so he will definitely go out for promiscuity, and then carry all kinds of venereal diseases… So after each sex, she hides in the toilet and endures strong physical nausea, and then enters a very strange vicious circle – she is disgusted Everything about her boyfriend is associated with his betrayal, so she hopes that her boyfriend can prove his loyalty to her, and then they have sex, and then feel disgusted again…
Of course, this case is a bit too “extreme”. Just like discussing “Elephants use bowling balls for beading”, most people still stay in the discussion on “Why elephants do beading surgery”. However, this kind of psychology is common to spiritual cleanliness – I want to be loved, but I am also afraid of the hypocrisy and betrayal of love. This is the first meaning of “spiritual cleanliness”: twisting.
Ironically, women who are addicted to spiritual cleanliness often use the argument that “men still retain the remnants of feudalism” to explain why they don’t believe in men and think they are dirty. But going back to the source, this group of mentally clean women, of course, also retains the “feudal remnants”. They value their loyalty and think that the thought that they should not be stained by the stinky worms is not the “feudal remnant” in the feudal remnants. for disobedience”. According to this theory, “Dong Yong peeked at the Seven Fairies taking a bath, and the Cowherd stole the Weaver Girl’s clothes, and they ended up falling in love with each other and becoming husband and wife” is simply a paradox. Of course, Dong Yong and the Cowherd are stinky cockroaches.
There is no intention to provoke a gender war, just taking “mental cleanliness” as an example. People with “mental cleanliness” do not think they have mental cleanliness, and they will slander those who have “mental cleanliness”. For example, if someone with a mental cleanliness sees the case I just exemplified, they will think that there is something wrong with the “woman”, she is not cleanliness at all, and then carry out a series of slut humiliations. This is the second meaning of “spiritual cleanliness”: there is also a strong exclusivity between spiritual cleanliness. Similarly, the extension of mental cleanliness is not only to humiliate other people with mental cleanliness to distinguish themselves from others’ mental cleanliness in common; it also suppresses and denies other people’s cognition from a viewpoint. Ways to build your own sense of authority, etc.
Since it is a kind of “cleanliness addiction”, it will be the same as the actual cleanliness addiction. If a person protects himself in a sterile environment for a long time, his immunity will decline. “Spiritual cleanliness” can also lead to a decline in “immunity”, which may be emotional immunity, or a more abstract immunity of “ability to be loved”. The more “mental cleanliness” people are, the more they like to disguise themselves as an image that has no fluctuations in their hearts and will not be hurt by the outside world, but in private they can grieve and suffer for a long time because of a story of others – and these stories will change. Become a “real case” for them to stay more holy – you see, stay away from scumbags, he/she deserves it!
Because the sample is not enough, the following content cannot be regarded as a “conclusion”, but it is worth thinking from this perspective.
I’ve asked some “mental cleansers” if they are equally disciplined about their lives – the answer is yes. And a common joy in this self-discipline is that they reduce sugar intake for health reasons. As mentioned above, people with excessive mental cleanliness will have a weakened and disordered emotional immunity, and they will very restrain their emotional expression to the outside world, and the control of this emotion requires mobilizing the function of the prefrontal cortex. But at the same time, they are reducing sugar intake. Could this be related to the “emotional collapse” that they must have after every emotional restraint?
This is the third meaning of “mental cleanliness”: the disorder of “immunity” brought about by mental cleanliness.
I don’t know how many “spiritual cleanliness” they can insist on seeing here, but it is estimated that they have all been wiped out, because “spiritual cleanliness” will not accept someone slandering the “cleanliness” they insist is the “only holiness” in an ugly world. That’s a pity. Next, I will talk about the methodology of desensitization treatment for “mental cleanliness” from the perspective of a masochist who has turned into a sadist:
- Express your emotions in a timely manner. The biggest problem with mental cleanliness is that it will deliberately create emotional fault lines, maintain its external calm and rationality, and then delay release of real emotions, or even contain their real emotions.
- The purpose of loving yourself is to know how to love others, not to be your own privilege to claim “true love”. The inner world of mental cleanliness has a basic principle, which is that they believe that people all over the world will harm themselves, thus closing their own channels of accepting different perceptions and feelings.
- As long as there is an audience, the performance will continue. The right and wrong that the mental cleanliness insists on is actually a paradox. They exclude other mental cleanliness and think they are absolutely right, but they have no way to prove it. Therefore, they need audiences to express their dissatisfaction and complaints from time to time. As long as an audience affirms their dissatisfaction and complaints, they can draw energy.
- The best way to fight off the virus is to develop antibodies to the virus.
“Is it a bowling ball that the elephant stuffed into the pearl?”
“None of my business!”
“Then are you bowling balls?”
“None of your business!”
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