Original link: https://www.ixiqin.com/2022/05/31/carpe-diem-and-long-term-planning/
My girlfriend complained to me that I didn’t seem to be willing to spend money like I used to, and I started to become a little stingy.
I’m also thinking, why is it like this?
After thinking about it, it may be because the sense of purpose is different.
When I was just graduating/still in school, I didn’t have such high expectations about getting married, and I didn’t expect that I would get married soon, so saving money was not important. There is no need to save, the important thing is to have fun in time.
Today, I need to consider marriage, betrothal gifts, buying a car, buying a house, and long-term development. With all the responsibilities in front of me, I will naturally appear more stingy and stingy.
Different sense of purpose, let me choose different ways and methods.
I don’t care about the future, I only care about the present. Today, I care about the present, but more about a better future.
But without the present, what is the future?
This article is reprinted from: https://www.ixiqin.com/2022/05/31/carpe-diem-and-long-term-planning/
This site is for inclusion only, and the copyright belongs to the original author.