afraid of getting old

Mercury bears often hear many people say: “I’m so afraid of getting old”. They are afraid of the appearance of aging, but the formation of fine lines and sagging skin cannot be prevented. What we can do is to delay the speed of aging. However, we will still become senile after all. Since it will definitely happen, why worry about it? It is better to relax and accept it, and even slowly learn to enjoy it.

When I get older, I sometimes look back on the past and find that I used to have longing for “growing up”. At the age of 20, I feel that the 30-year-old people know their goals, and feel that they are independent and full of ideals; at the age of 30, I think that the 40-year-old people enjoy life, and feel that they are mature, stable and trustworthy. When you are about to turn 40, imagine that people in their 50s and 60s are full of wisdom, understand what “life” is, and can embrace ups and downs to their heart’s content.

In the end, it was all just my own expectations and imagination. In the end, we always think that we are not good enough. No matter how old you are, every stage has its pros and cons. Thirty years old has the beauty and troubles of thirty years old. Maybe you are full of fighting spirit and striving to advance in the workplace, but you have to face the secret attacks and exclusions of your colleagues. Fifty years old also has the beauty and worries of fifty years old. Maybe you finally have time to prepare to realize your childhood dreams, but you can’t help but worry about your children’s future. Each has its own experience, each has its own beauty, since getting old is inevitable, the most important thing is how to live your life, right?

Time always flies by. The Mercury bear believes that you will also have the idea of ​​”Didn’t you just pass the new year? Why is this year coming to an end?” The wishes of this year are still too late to be realized, and the new year can’t wait to catch up. It is precisely because we have too many things we want to do but are too late to do that we know how to cherish time, admit our own shortcomings, and understand the value of growth.

Getting old is really not as bad as you think. You will find that you finally understand many things that you didn’t understand before, but there are also many things that you thought you knew long ago, but you don’t understand at all. You will find that you can calmly handle many things that you were not good at in the past, but there are also many things that you used to be easy to do but now you are afraid to do. Isn’t that what growing up is all about? What you gain and what you lose at the same time, no matter how old you are.

Aging is a fact that cannot be changed, and it cannot be an excuse for your failure or failure. A lot of things can be done if you want to and put your heart into it. Some people formed a band at the age of 50, some challenged the marathon at the age of 60, and some rode a motorcycle around the Peninsula of West Malaysia at the age of 70. Although growing up is not as easy as we imagined, please believe that as long as you live well, good things will happen.

Perhaps, we always feel that we are too late to grow, because we only see our own shortcomings all the time, but isn’t this the motivation for us to learn and grow?

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