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When a person smiles, he may be trying very hard to force a smile;
When a person cries, he may really be wronged a lot;
When a person breaks down, he may have been really brave for a long time.
What we see is the surface of things, and we often use the surface to define what we think. Someone works the night shift at a 7-11 store, and you look down on him, “Huh, he must be doing this kind of hard work because he can’t find a job.”, but you don’t know that he is working multiple jobs to pay for his family’s medical bills, you see You don’t see the difficulties behind him, you only see the scene in front of you, and you silently define him in your heart.
Mercury Bear used to be like this sometimes, thinking that what he saw in front of him was the truth, but everyone has everyone’s difficulties, so if we don’t know it, don’t criticize it randomly.
Some people pretend to be great, but they are not very noble. Mercury bears don’t understand why some people use their parents’ money, and then laugh at those who work hard to make money.
A person breaks down absolutely because of what goes through.
You think his breakdown is very ordinary, and you think he is making a fuss out of a molehill:
“Huh, he’s crying like that.”
“I just said a few words and he got angry. It’s really glass-hearted.”
A person’s sad tears, unless they are very familiar, will not be shed easily in front of strangers. You are not him, you don’t know what he has gone through, you just think he is fussy and has no resistance to stress.
but,
You don’t know how long he lasted before weeping,
You don’t know how much effort he put in before he failed the exam,
You don’t know how many times he forgave each other before breaking up,
There are many things in this world that you don’t know, but you only see him breaking down and sad.
Only he knows how many kilograms of straw you have crushed in your so-called fuss.
We can’t let everyone understand our feelings, some things can only be faced by ourselves, and we don’t expect others to understand.
The Mercury bear only hopes that if you don’t understand, then keep your mouth shut.
If you can’t be a gift in someone else’s life, then don’t be a problem in someone else’s life.
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