birthday message

Original link: https://mercurychong.blogspot.com/2023/08/blog-post_29.html

On Mother’s Good Friday, here is a picture of her Wen Qing.

Through 41 years of observation, I feel that many children have made a mistake-the parents have been deified by us.

When we were children, they were the sky in our hearts, they were omnipotent, they were everything. When we grow up, we gradually understand that they also stumbled and fumbled how to be a good father and mother.

Many days later, when we also started to learn to be parents or elders, we found that it was really like going to school when we were young, some people got good grades in the exams, and some people really failed.

Some parents, they lack knowledge, do not know how to do it very badly, but as long as the love is real, time will always make you feel, understand, and considerate.

Some parents, facing different children, even if they love each other deeply, but due to human nature, they will always subconsciously favor one and “left out” the other, just like there will be some differences between parents in our hearts. Same subtle difference.

For some parents, they are really failing, and they don’t even have the love they deserve, so they have to bravely recognize and accept this reality. But don’t kidnap yourself because of their mistakes, and learn to separate from their mistakes slowly.

Don’t punish yourself with the mistakes of others, even if the “others” are your parents.

Life is not the continuation of who, it is independent beauty.

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