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△ 267｜Can you spend money to erase emotional records?
Last year, there was a news that someone broke the news about the DR diamond ring known as “a man can only customize one diamond ring in his life”, saying that its internal staff were selling “special services” that “erased purchase records” and only cost 500 yuan , you can let the male buyer erase the purchase record.
Immediately afterwards, the news was refuted by the DR diamond ring, saying that he would reserve the right to pursue legal responsibility. However, I don’t believe the content of this press release. It’s not that I don’t believe in refuting rumors, but that this news is a “PR show” from beginning to end. Because it happens to be released on a special “e-commerce festival” like November 11, 2021, and it has something to do with feelings, the “purpose” of this news is a bit too obvious, so I don’t think this news has any There is no need to discuss it, and there is no need to discuss it “now”, because he himself intends to create a hot topic and marketing exposure.
I turned this topic up and talked about it in the past two days because of another interesting thing, which made me turn out the inspiration that was recorded a long time ago. This is “Is the sixth sense the best way to catch a bag and cheat? “ The follow-up to this “serial series”, I said at the time that I saw evidence of the woman’s derailment from the details of the circle of friends; I didn’t expect it, the man actually knew it all the time, and of course he was also suspected of cheating, so these two people have been cheating. It’s all “playing with each other”, and in the end, I was busy and felt sorry for the man.
It was only then that I remembered that many years ago, when I was just graduating from university, he had a few conversations with me. After he knew that I was a law student, he asked me a few questions, “Actually, I can’t use the law to make a law. Answer, but I think it is very valuable” question: Is there any way to erase the past open house records? If the marriage partner wants to check his own house opening record, can he refuse the other party from the perspective of privacy protection?
At that time, I thought he was just playing a joke on me because he found out that I was a law student. I went over the chat records at that time and read the “sincere” in his words.
He: “If the marriage partner wants to sign an agreement with me, for example, if either party cheats after marriage, they will compensate the other party for a sum of money. Is such a contract okay?”
Me: “It is self-governing, and it does not violate public order and good customs. It can be regarded as a prenuptial agreement.”
He: “When is it valid? When is it divorced?”
Me: “If you come up with this agreement when you get a divorce, you will definitely consider the above compensation issue.”
I have no way of knowing what he has gone through in these years. If I use him as a “sample” to falsely greet him, it will be too easy to reveal my purpose. So I can only read from his circle of friends that he is still married to that person. I don’t know whether he signed that agreement or not, but at least the two of them have achieved some kind of “balance” by playing their own way. Maybe people are also having a good time, and there is no need for others like us to “explore” them.
And this story brings out another content that has been lying in the inspiration record for a long time, which is about a person’s design and idea of developing an “emotional system”:
I want to make a product, but I don’t know if there is a market. Please help me to have a look.
Background: Now is an era of fast food love, and the number of scumbags and scumbags has greatly increased. In order to improve the quality of people’s love, I want to make a software.
Content: It is a remote management, similar to the enterprise solution mdm, which can manage the other party’s mobile phone/computer and even smart TV from the background. The main functions are remote positioning, reading photo albums, call records, text messages, browser records, usage time of each app, memos, obtaining logged-in network accounts, remote screen capture, real-time listening, remote locking and formatting of mobile phones. (For people with two mobile phones, use the method of scanning the local network to obtain other networked devices, and you can know whether there are any redundant devices)
Compliance: Data collection requires the consent of the other party (direct points of disagreement, nothing to say)
Possible problems: the other party flashes the machine, or uses a mobile phone clone or a virtual machine. Android can use the system’s api to prevent flashing, and it is forbidden to clear data in mdm mode. Apple phone remote management requires the other party’s password to activate the phone again (supervisory lock)
——”Want to be a love aid”
I actually suspected that the PO owner who posted this post on V2EX should be “fishing”, that is, deliberately creating a topic to stimulate the three views of netizens and attract researchers to create traffic and generate topics. But I also saw “a trace of sincerity” in his post. Just like the male classmate who asked me those strange questions back then, I could even read between the lines of his idea of this product, his desire for control and insecurities .
Let’s not discuss whether there are any logical or ethical issues with this product idea, we just imagine that this product is actually developed – do you think anyone will use it?
I casually opened the App Store and searched for the keyword “positioning” in the Chinese mainland market. Among the apps on the results page, the most downloaded apps were used to locate other people’s software, with 74,000, 61,000, 58,000, 49,000, that is to say, counting other scattered software downloads, it is conservatively estimated that 250,000 users are the target users of this type of positioning software.
However, it is a pity that these softwares only play a “positioning” function. It can’t even transfer a person’s past “opening records” to let each other check the “reason” of these opening records. Is this right? Can it play a more elevating role in the relationship?
After all these things are clear, the platform sponsor will draft an agreement for both parties to sign, which is the question asked by the students at the beginning: sign a “Not Derailment Guarantee”, and use economic sanctions to regulate the two Loyalty to one’s feelings. In the event of a relationship dispute, the platform will intervene as a mediator, adjudicate and determine the proportion of two people’s responsibilities in the relationship like a traffic policeman. If there is a third party responsibility, it should also be considered as part of the responsibility determination. After issuing the responsibility determination letter, points will be deducted according to the proportion of their responsibility.
So, this is what Tuqiongda sees. The “outdated product demand analysis expert” who hasn’t met with you for a long time is here!
Can love life be like a “driver’s license”, only two people who have passed the love test can be together. However, unlike a driver’s license, the deduction items are not “officially drawn up”, but are discussed and determined by both parties themselves , which behaviors cannot be tolerated by one party, and which behaviors are out of sight and out of mind. When both parties sign this agreement when they are in love or marriage, in every emotional dispute, the platform will divide the responsibilities.
For example, if the man does not do housework at home for a long time, the woman can initiate a complaint. Of course, like the rules of quick compensation, she has to take photos and collect evidence by herself. After the platform delimits responsibility according to the complaint, it will deduct points and punish the man. The lower the man’s score is, when the two break up or divorce, the property will be divided according to the proportion of the branch or the other party’s “youth loss fee” will be paid. Of course, there are also ways to “redeem” the points . For example, if the man decides to help the woman do housework actively, the woman takes a photo and submits it, or the man proves that he has done the housework. After the woman agrees, the points can be added back.
On the other hand, when the points are deducted completely, or because of some “major emotional fault”, such as one party’s infidelity and the two break up or divorce, the other party’s points will be fully deducted, and the points will not be restored. In this case, he cannot establish a love or marriage relationship with others through the platform. Only when he applies for the “Men’s Morality Academy” or “Women’s Morality Academy” and passes the exam, he is eligible to redeem the points.
Of course, some people will question that if people don’t use this platform, they won’t be regulated, and they will fall in love with whomever they like. Having said that, the original intention of this system is to allow people to establish a safe and reliable relationship, and it can even be elevated to a higher national strategic level. This is a major measure to improve the status of infertility among contemporary young people.
So, let’s answer the seemingly nonsensical question of the title at this time: Can we spend money to erase emotional records? In other words, can emotional points be bought and sold? I think we should acquiesce to the existence of such a market. Although it is not allowed on the surface, the exchange of points indicates that people are willing to use points as a bargaining chip for love and marriage. Why not?
However, this system also needs to be implemented in conjunction with three other policies: mandatory physical examination , permanently marking the platform blacklist for patients with diseases that are not suitable for marriage and childbirth; strict supervision of condom distribution at the national level, and complete national control of condom manufacturing and sales; and Illegal abortion is prohibited .
Let young people have the confidence to fall in love, have the confidence to marry, and have the ability to have children, and make love and marriage closely linked with a person’s patriotic mission.
Old rules, about this emotional platform, those who are interested in investing can negotiate with me.
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