Original link: https://blog.fueis.com/23-0430
The current big data is really outrageous. My mother just finished urging me to have a baby and she got angry with me on the phone. The next day I went online and sent me all kinds of gossip posts about how miserable life is in old age. Regardless of whether these posts are true or not, let’s just say that I have enjoyed the blessings for seven or eighty years, but what happened to the miserable few years before I enter the coffin? I am very happy! You can’t be too greedy, how can you take all the good things for you. Don’t say that having a baby and raising a baby is not necessarily unfortunate. It is not necessarily true for others, but for me, I am 100% sure that it is unfortunate, and there is no second possibility. I just don’t want it to happen. I don’t know what to argue about this kind of thing. It’s really inexplicable.
I have talked with my mother about this matter before, and it is settled. Based on what I knew about her, it was indeed a deal, and she was convinced by me. Even in her heart, she may still want me to have one, but because she respects and understands my thoughts, she won’t come to me again. So this time this happened suddenly, I really can’t understand it. This is not like what her personality would do. After discussing with my sister for a long time, I think it must be what the little sisters who often play together told her. If they talk too much, they will be brainwashed. Because my sister was also urged to marry recently, it was really inexplicable, it was like a sudden change of mind. But she changed, we will not. If you lose your temper and drop the phone because of something that has already been negotiated, then don’t contact me for the time being. In my opinion, since this matter has been negotiated and there are results, there is no dispute. It’s okay if you change your mind, just talk about it and let’s chat in detail. But she insisted on taking this irrational behavior like venting her emotions, and she couldn’t even communicate, why should I rush to scold her. The premise of communication is rationality. Effective communication cannot be established without caring or being too emotional.
What I don’t understand is that everyone has their own life. You can have opinions and dissatisfaction with other people’s choices, but it’s really tasteless if you point them in front of others. Because what you think does not mean what he thinks… But this matter is too common in China, I can’t find the answer and can only tell myself that everyone can’t help it. But this no way only means that I give up trying to understand it, it doesn’t mean I accept it. In terms of insisting on myself, I have been rebellious since I was a child, and I will not compromise because of anyone’s persuasion or persecution. Unless your persuasion not only makes me understand but also allows me to accept, and I can combine them with my thoughts and behaviors, then I will adjust my thoughts and behaviors to a certain extent. But this is actually quite difficult at the moment. People like me are “stubborn” in one word, but I am responsible for my actions. Really, please adults have a sense of distance between adults.
Next, there will be a large wave of food pictures! ! !
@Mango Tree Cafe Osaka on 4/14
I have eaten at this Thai restaurant with my friends before. The food is actually quite delicious, but the service is not so good. We went to the one on the 10th floor of LUCUA in Umeda, and there is a high probability that we will not go to this restaurant again in the future.
@GRAND FRONT OSAKA North Building 6F on 4/14
Because I didn’t enjoy the previous meal, I left early and sat down elsewhere to chat. But because I was actually quite full, and there was no dessert shop open at night, I went to this place on the recommendation of a friend. This place is very good, and there are many shops with delicious scenery. Find a seat to sit down, you can go to various stores to place an order, and he will deliver the item directly to your seat. The friend bought Shangtou Shui (to learn the language of big detectives), ordered some appetizers, and chatted all night like this.
Mainly, I have a friend who changed jobs and will go to Tokyo in May, so it will not be so easy to make an appointment in the future.
@ベトナムノーイ１２３ on 4/15
It was the first date this year with another group of friends. One of them sent a restaurant recommended by several magazines. In the end, we chose to eat this Vietnamese cuisine at noon. The ending is a thunderstorm. The food in this restaurant is not unpalatable, but the Vietnamese food is not special. Compared with the quantity, the price is a bit expensive. The plate is the fixed part of the set meal, and the small bowl is the main course that you can choose. Let alone the other main courses, the bowl is too small! Although the vegetable roll in the upper left corner is quite delicious, I will definitely not go to the second store!
@LeBRESSO on 4/15
Because we stepped on thunder at lunch, we wanted to leave quickly and find a dessert shop to sit down. The result is Umeda on a Saturday afternoon, which is overcrowded despite the rain. There were queues everywhere, and finally we chose a shop with no queues to drink coffee, and the time limit was still one hour. It’s time to leave, but the sliced bread here is quite fragrant and delicious (｡ì _ í｡)
@おぼん食堂１6 on 4/15
In the evening, I went to eat at another restaurant recommended by the magazine. At noon, we actually hesitated for a long time between Vietnamese food and this restaurant, but we chose the one that didn’t work. But this store is very good at night, the restaurant is very western, and there is a small lamp on the table, which is very atmospheric. Our location is next to the window, so we are very satisfied. In addition, the food is also delicious, which is more healthy, but the taste is really good.
I thought we would break up after shopping in the afternoon, because the husband of another married sister’s family is more clingy, and every appointment is the kind that calls to urge people to go home before the meal is finished. The most famous one was when my sister answered the phone and said “Do you still remember that you are married?” Although I was not there at the time, it was really funny every time I said it. In fact, it is also because brother 9 has returned to China, otherwise I would be a person who has to go home for dinner and try to make an appointment for lunch… Although he will not call to remind you, but he will wait for you when you return home. But it’s good to prepare a small cake, a small gift or something, it’s actually quite cute hahaha.
It’s been a long time since I posted a selfie, but I have a mosaic for the two little sisters.
The three of us are really the memory of the fish. We forget to take pictures every time we make appointments. Every time we say that we must remember next time, and then we will continue to forget next time… The reason why we finally remembered this time is also very simple, that is, the atmosphere in the store is so good I want to take a photo. Otherwise, we would chat every time after ordering, and start eating as soon as the food was served. When we think about it, there are leftovers on the table and it’s too ugly to take pictures ╮(╯▽╰)╭
Cheeseとはちみつ on 4/26
Near the end of the month, I made an afternoon tea appointment with my former store manager, during which time I complained a lot about work haha. I feel that we have become friends, and I guess I can continue to make appointments for afternoon tea after I resign in the future! And the former store manager is a glutton, she loves to eat not only is she good at cooking, but also knows a lot of delicious restaurants! You can shop for delicious food in the future! After all, I’m one of those people who doesn’t even bother to search for it myself!
This store seems to be newly opened, just in the Sangong underground shopping mall, I haven’t seen it before. The main one is honey, which is delicious! That is, I ordered honey muffins + honey fruit drink. Although it was not too sweet, it still felt a little sweet. It seems that dessert should be paired with coffee…
But who knows me, this month seems to be back in high school, because I had the title of “Rain Girl” at that time! I have made three dinner appointments with people this month, and the dates for these three days were all decided by me more than half a month in advance, and all of them rained without exception! ! ! Is this winning rate too high? ? ?
Finally, I want to complain that the weather has changed too much this month! It is still 25-26 degrees today, and it will drop by 10 degrees immediately tomorrow. From 7 to 8 degrees in the morning and evening, it can reach 20 degrees at noon, and I can’t really wear clothes. Then I also successfully caught a cold on the 15th… Although my hay fever symptoms almost disappeared in early April, but because it was still in the end stage of hay fever, I thought the symptoms of sneezing and runny nose were Pollen problem. Because the sneezing of allergies is not the same as the sneezing of colds, the kind of sneezing that I had several times in a row was basically allergies. But when I went home and slept at night, my throat stopped working the next morning. It doesn’t hurt, it just feels itchy and a little dry. I feel that I may have a cold and take medicine immediately. I finally suppressed the symptoms at this stage and they didn’t get worse. But it didn’t get better, my throat was always dry and itchy. There may also be a reason for the air being too dry, the mucous membrane is too fragile. I also bought a throat spray, similar to watermelon cream. Also, it may be that I have been busy with work these days and have not had a good rest. I have tried my best to rest and stopped exercising these days. But the weather is too weird, the hot and cold is really dying. I still remember that last month before Brother 9 returned to China, because he knew that he would be back for more than a month, it would be very hot in late April and early May, so he specially put on a thin quilt for me as a backup. It turned out that it was the end of the month and Brother 9 was coming back and I was still wearing a thick coat and a thick quilt… It rained a lot in the past two days at the end of the month. After entering May, the temperature finally stabilized at a maximum temperature of more than 20 degrees. It was not easy! ! !
I was hurt for a long time after watching “The Three-Body Problem” last month. This month, I have recovered a bit. When I rest, I mainly watch variety shows. This year’s “Detective 8” is actually very good-looking in general, but the last episode is so bad that it can be scored 1 point. This 1 point is for hard-working players. The script of the last episode is terrible! ! ! In the episode of “Reminiscences of the Past”, I felt that the plot was too big and too reasoning, but because the story was not bad, although it was a bit too sensational, but the plot didn’t collapse, I thought it was passable. But what the hell is this last episode? It’s been exaggerating the emotions of Line A throughout the whole process. It can almost be said that it has been presenting the entire Line B in a belittled way. With the emotional bonus of “Reminiscences of the Past”, it’s no wonder that the audience (except for some Fishing in troubled waters) are scolding the final result. And I feel that for the two lines, the players did not present their own ideas very well (there may be but they were cut), in short, it looks very bad. The most unacceptable thing for me is how could Detective Sa kill someone, not to mention that the person is not dead, as long as I make this decision and implement it, I feel that this person has nothing to do with Sa Sa, the emotion card is useless to me (Though it wasn’t much use in the first place). Really the script is the biggest problem, it sucks. Even in the boring episodes of Ming Detective, I didn’t make such an evaluation, because the badness of that session was the problem of some players. If it is such a presentation, then I don’t think it is necessary to release the ninth season.
Well, let me look forward to May! 9 Brother is coming back, I finally don’t have to cook by myself T^T
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