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△ 193｜Scripted Love
Presumably because, as life stages are different, when writing, content themes also reflect completely different thinking according to these stages. On the other hand, I looked at myself in the new 500-day writing plan and the last 500-day writing plan. The proportion of topics about “love” has dropped sharply, because at this stage, I am in the period of the marriage relationship, and I naturally leave those who are in love. The world of flowers is far away.
In the post-class essay on marriage law in college, I wrote a dissertation with a title that is not very similar to the thesis – “Arrangement and Chess Pieces in Chinese Marriage”. During that time period, I was discussing my views on marriage in advance. , Looking back now, and sure enough, my understanding of marriage at that time was still so superficial and superficial. Although I still think that most of the marriages are actually sales contracts, but in the past few years, including the marriages that I have experienced, and the marriages I have seen friends and relatives experience, I have a better understanding of this “sale contract”.
Obviously, because of the existence of this layer of “sale contract” in marriage, what should be done and what should not be done, because there is a basic principle, so it will not be too far from the standard – at most the most exaggerated is: the wife She gave birth to three children for her husband. Not only did the three children have no blood relationship with the husband, but the three children were also conceived by different men. The wife comforted her husband. There’s nothing wrong with giving yourself old age.
The script of marriage is always limited by a few fixed elements: mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, son-in-law, brother-in-law, and the worst is to stage some incestuous plots such as brother-in-law and sister-in-law, brother and sister-in-law, and it can be exaggerated, or else The mother and daughter are pregnant at the same time, which is in line with the policy needs of multiple births, but it can also involve deep thinking about family ethics and the order of generations.
The script of love is much more interesting. At least today, there are all kinds of love scripts that can be played all the time. One by one surpasses everyone’s imagination. Because they are not bound by the contract, more people will be in love. A tragicomic farce that was staged during the pursuit of “Contract”.
There was news a couple of days ago that a woman was on a date with her love interest, because the man was late, the woman smashed several luxury cars parked on the side of the road with a hammer, saying that her boyfriend would make compensation for this, which is right. The “reasonable” punishment for his “unforgivable” behavior of being late in love. Although I think this news is more likely to be a “stalker”, and it still has certain signs of inciting gender opposition, but if this incident is real, I will not feel absurd – because love will not have any Scripted, it can be more exaggerated and outrageous than we think.
The interesting thing about a love script is that it can have all kinds of plots, whether it is similar or plagiarized, as long as the parties enjoy it, the plot can become an existence that insiders find reasonable but outsiders find outrageous. Some people who are helpless in love can also test whether a person is so-called true love by imitating these scripts. However, these scripts do not have a fixed formula and conclusion, and there are many uncertainties and surprises about how to perform and how they will end.
I used to be considered a half “emotional expert” because I always commented on the minutiae of some relationships with sharp words and cunning angles. So in the past, I still had some situations where I would really follow my “methodology” to prove whether there was a “problem” in my relationship – after all, I was shrouded in a halo, so I didn’t have the nerve to tell those people about my “methodology” It’s not from my experience, nor from the “materials” around me—unfortunately, the love materials around me are not outrageous, and they are basically within the scope of my prediction, so there is no way to have a strong “ representation”. And the way I arrive at these methodologies is simple – extrapolate from the darkest and ugliest perspectives of human nature, then contribute to some possible outcome, and then work backwards to the minutiae of life.
If we change to the present, this kind of writing logic is typical of “creating anxiety” for fear of chaos in the world, but I have always used the “worst” human nature to speculate on a person’s behavior. Although this thing is cruel, it is at least a kind of Prediction of the worst outcome – but the reality may be worse and stupid than we imagined, the love scripts of the past few years, whether they are due to the trend of short video traffic, they have begun to become deformed and ugly, but since it Having so many audiences means that these deformed, ugly, and even more outrageous and satirical plots than the plots I deduced from the ugliness of human nature at that time were bought by some people, so some people will definitely use these “methodologies” to go to Compare and test your love.
Unfortunately, my “emotional expert” status didn’t last long. Because after all, there are still a group of people who live in pink bubbles all day. They don’t allow others to see their love clearly on the surface, and have any pointers and judgments. They feel that they are the most beautiful people in the world. Happy people, and those “blemishes” in their relationships are just “things out of nothing” when others are jealous of their feelings. There used to be people like this who fell twice in the same place and ate shit, and even after the third time they opened their mouths and fed the shit, did they realize that the warning I gave them back then was real, and they would come to their senses. After waking up, he suddenly found me and complained.
In the past, I would definitely take on such a “case”, because it is a material worthy of being reworked by art. But now, the aura of the “emotional expert” has dissipated, and I really can’t think of how the dark side of the human heart can deduce the emotional script into a more outrageous plot – so I simply changed it all to “Blessings” ”, to bless those feelings that, according to past observations, will definitely have problems – and in the sound of this blessing, they began to doubt whether their feelings were really like the blessings of others, and they realized that the love The script develops completely according to their own imagination, until they both realize that this love is just the performance of the script.
You see, people are so rude.
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