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△ 336｜A family needs to be neat and tidy
I haven’t gone downstairs to do nucleic acid recently, so I have lost a lot of samples and materials for observation.
The last time I was still in the mood to do nucleic acid, I saw the “sample” of a family, so I wrote down the key words “a family does nucleic acid neatly” in the inspiration notebook. But I haven’t found an opportunity to write it out, after all, there are still too few samples of “one family”.
At the beginning of the year, I recorded a hearsay inspiration, but I forgot whether I wrote it in the previous daily writing.
Roughly speaking, the father-in-law who lives together is always “out of control”, and the mother-in-law is a person who pays great attention to the rule of “a family should be neat and tidy”, so they should try their best to be in a mixed control when doing nucleic acid. But the father-in-law didn’t want to listen to his mother-in-law, and often “leaved the arrangements” to do the nucleic acid first. As a result, the two of them always quarrel, and the mother-in-law’s argument is also very simple: because it is mixed management, if the family is not in the same management, it will be very troublesome if there is mixed sex.
If we talk about this matter from the perspective of the Chinese-style Great Mother Goddess family structure, the reason is indeed on the side of the mother-in-law.
The nucleic acid testing of a family should be in a mixed tube as much as possible, which will greatly reduce the probability of “out of control”. Moreover, everyone’s nucleic acid results will be issued at the same time. If someone’s nucleic acid test has a problem, the family will be neat and tidy together, and there will be no confusion—but thinking about it again, the results of the nucleic acid test , Will there be a fundamental change because the person involved is not in the same management as me, or because he does you first and then does it? Obviously not, but that’s not allowed, because it breaks the “rules” agreed upon by the Mother Goddess.
I went downstairs to do nucleic acid that day, and I met such a family.
The center of the family is the hostess who organizes the overall situation, the so-called “big mother god”, and at the same time, there are her parents-in-law and the eldest son who walks in the front and does not want to have any interaction with his sister. , and the little daughter who was held tightly in the hands of the Great Mother God as a treasure. A group of five people, whoever does it first, whoever takes out the mobile phone to show the QR code to the two old people, are all under the arrangement of this woman, and no one can change the rules.
I observed her and predicted that she must be the one who put herself “last”, because only in this way can the actual status of “Great Mother” be reflected in the so-called humility. After everyone obeyed her arrangement, she would come slowly and bring the whole arrangement to an end. As a result, after the two elderly people and the youngest daughter finished the nucleic acid test, they got stuck behind her and the eldest son, and were suddenly interrupted. They had to participate in another nucleic acid mixing.
The woman is obviously very dissatisfied with this arrangement, but she also knows that the “divine power” in her family is nothing compared to the white guards who test the nucleic acid. After all she could only complain in a low voice—the key point— she looked back at the people behind her, and she had clearly felt that she was out of control. Is there a possibility of being “positive” to be a mixed person with her? Seeing her so nervous, I just stared blankly at her and pretended to cough twice. I could clearly see her dissatisfaction, but she was full of fear, because I gave her more “out of control” ——Maybe I am a positive person, mixed with her in a mess, disrupting her well-arranged rules in an instant.
If there really was a mixed tube positive, it must be her tube—if so, her data would be completely severed from her father-in-law, mother-in-law and young daughter who were originally under her orders. If she mixes positive, in her opinion, it is a process of “theocracy” being pulled down from the altar. She will not be able to explain it at that time, and she will even blame the white guards who forcibly divided them into groups in the morning-if it wasn’t for his appearance, It will not cause you to be mixed up.
There is often a lot of “gambler logic” in the Chinese family concept.
Take nucleic acid as an example, you can list several: it is best for the mixed tube of a family to be in one, otherwise the probability of mixed positive will increase; let the elderly do it first, so that if they are positive, the mixed tube that is done later will be positive The probability will decrease; the longer the person who entangles with the staff at the scanning station, the more likely they are positive patients…
I also lived in a family dominated by the Great Mother since I was a child, but I completely cut off the control of the Great Mother almost in junior high school.
At that time, the mother goddess of the family was still grandma, and her best method was moral kidnapping/emotional blackmail. She always talked about her own, other people’s feelings, and what she thought other people would definitely feel about one thing, instead of talking about it. What was it all about, and what impact did it have? So over time I became numb and let her perform thoroughly, but without my audience, her performance was much less in front of me-at least she found someone who could still listen to her performance.
If the nucleic acid testing happened in the period of the big family, I believe she will definitely arrange for everyone to gather and do the nucleic acid together, and who will do it first and who will do it later——
I must be the first, because I am the one who is the least controlled, so the more I am in the front, the less out of control I cause to the back; she must be the last, because she wants to reflect her divine power, which is a summary and induction—but once there is a division of responsibility at this time, it is also within her control—because she arranges those unimportant and easy to lose control at the forefront, even if she is in charge, she can still preside over her The overall situation in the second half – unless she happens to be in charge, then she will worry about whether her “divine right” will be subverted.
But the key point is, will the order of nucleic acid testing really affect the report of nucleic acid testing? certainly! For the Mother Goddess, this is the best glimpse they can use to take control and keep everyone at her beck and call.
If we understand nucleic acid as another kind of “symbol”, this kind of plot that must be neat and tidy is much easier to understand.
Mixed tube positive means that one of them will be declared “positive” and then bear a “crime”, controlled by personal freedom, forcibly detained, and by the way, the family members and close contacts of this “sinner” will also be included. In other words, you can understand the mixed-tube nucleic acid testing tube as a list of “prison pre-allocation”.
If you are infected and become a positive patient, it means that the moral cost of this person in the whole family has fallen below the bottom line, and will be distributed to all other family members, which will become the original capital of moral kidnapping in the family in the future.
For example, if the mother-in-law of this family is unfortunately infected because she went downstairs to chat with other old ladies. She became the “Patient Zero” in this family, bringing the whole family together. Then, for the daughter-in-law of the “Great Mother God”, she has obtained absolute moral kidnapping capital, not only can she completely control her mother-in-law’s every move, but in the future, this behavior that puts the whole family in crisis can also become the old lady in this woman’s hands. The “little braid” left in it.
So that’s why the out-of-control person must do it first, and she must stay in the last one, because that “prison list” is both a curse and a gamble -she has to guarantee that she will not be here. I became the sinner in a game of “chasing the sun”, and got the capital to be kidnapped by others-so, when she saw me coughing, she showed a frightened expression. At that moment, she really wanted to ask Bai The guard begged for mercy, so that he could be locked in a “cell” with his family, instead of being locked in a “cell” with someone who would definitely lose control like me, and let her become the same “sinner”.
However, she just didn’t figure it out- now, all of us are locked in the same prison, as long as they say a word, we can all become “sinners” in the cell -of course, the whole family can also Neatly become “sinners”.
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