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People’s first reaction may often be instinctive,
Instinct or conditioned reflex is mostly for survival thinking,
The behavior produced under this condition must be “selfish”.
Always manage your first reaction.
This behavior is also divided into multiple realms.
Think carefully before blurting out a sentence, whether it is out of instinct or conditioned reflex.
If it is, then think twice, and then say it after full consideration, after all, you can’t take back what you say.
Another level of realm, before something happens, the direction of thinking of the first reaction.
When you have this kind of thought, first judge whether it is out of instinct or conditioned reflex.
If so, think about whether this kind of thinking is really useful, and whether it is really considering the overall situation.
If it is contrary to these directions, then you have to adjust it.
After all, if the thinking is wrong, the behavior is wrong, and the mistakes made are more far-reaching and more difficult to recover.
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