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See a video from band teacher Teresa Kaye Newmantiktok moving + translation
The reason teachers are leaving is not because of teacher pay. As a band director, I receive higher pay compared to most teachers, which serves as an incentive for me to show up and stay late. However, this alone is insufficient. Even if every teacher in Texas received a $10,000 raise annually, we would still face the same issues we are dealing with now. Let me share some recent experiences that illustrate the challenges I’ve faced in the last 48 hours.
Yesterday, I encountered a disturbing incident where I had to intervene in an assault that occurred in my band hall. It wasn’t just a fight; it was a student repeatedly punching another student in the head. Additionally, someone decided to tamper with all the French horns in our possession, removing every single string and rendering them unplayable. I had set up a drum set station for my percussionists, who had been requesting it all year. However, within 24 hours, someone had already damaged the high hat. People are stealing and using instruments that do not belong to them, even if they are stored in lockers.
Furthermore, one student struck another in the face while their trumpet was in use, and another student in the same class flipped me off and then lied about it. I want to address a common response: yes, I understand that these challenges come with the job. However, it is disheartening when people on my campus claim that the band students are the most well-behaved and respectful, yet I am still confronted with such issues daily. This is not merely a financial problem, nor is it solely an administrative or parental problem. It is a problem of emotional dis-regulation.
In my 13 years of teaching, I have never encountered such difficulties in getting kids to keep their hands to themselves and refrain from damaging property. While it is our responsibility as teachers to guide and teach them, these students seem unaffected by tradition al corrective measures. They do not care about failing, being reprimanded, or receiving poor grades. Their primary concern appears to be seeking immediate entertainment. I hesitate to attribute this solely to technology, as I am well-versed in its use and incorporate it into my les sons. However, it seems as though some of these children have given up on life at such a young age, abandoning any aspiration for something meaningful.
I began this school year with enthusiasm, hoping to make a positive impact upon returning to the classroom. However, I have felt like I’ve been chasing my own tail throughout the year. While I love my students, I am emotionally drained and exhausted from the mistreatment I endure. The system is failing both the students and the teachers.
The reason for high teacher turnover is not just because of compensation. I am a school band teacher and I get paid more than most teachers because of the hours and overtime pay. But that’s not enough. Even if every teacher in Texas got $10,000 a year in subsidies, we’d still have to deal with the same problems we have now. Let me tell you what happened to me in the past 48 hours, one by one:
– I prevented a violent attack in the band hall yesterday, not a fight, one student hit another student on the head at least four or five times;
– I was a little negligent, a weird kid took the strings off all our French horns in the past half day, making them unplayable;
– I have a drum set for the percussionists and they have been waiting for a year. Turns out, after only 24 hours, someone damaged the bottom hi-hat of the drum kit
– Someone steals and uses a musical instrument that does not belong to them, even if it is locked in a locker;
– In addition, some students fought because “the other party played a trumpet in my face”
– In the same class, a student gave me the middle finger and then tried to deny it.
Before you criticize me in your comments, let me say that I know what I’m in. Yes, I understand very well. But many people at school have told me that band students are the best behaved and most obedient students on campus. However, I still have to deal with this crap every day. This is not a funding issue, it is not a management issue, and it is not a parent issue. It’s an emotional dysregulation problem.
In the past 13 years I’ve been an educator, I’ve never had to repeat “Hands off” and “Don’t destroy property.” I understand that part of my responsibilities as a teacher is to manage and demonstrate student behavior. In the past year, I have repeatedly nagged about discipline many times, posted notices on the wall, summoned students to lecture, gave written criticism, and even asked some students to quit. Traditional corrective measures appear to be failing. They don’t care about failing subjects, written criticism and withdrawal (OSS, Out-of-School Suspension). Most of them only care about entertaining themselves for the next five minutes
I try not to be a millennial teacher who blames “tech products” for everything, because I am very invested in new technology, I like short video apps, and I also invest in new media applications in the classroom. However, it seems that some students have given up on life and ended the search for meaning in life at such a young age.
Originally, I was full of expectations for this semester, hoping to have a positive impact on the classroom. However, throughout the semester, I felt like I was spinning in circles. I love my students, but I am frustrated, exhausted and tormented. The system doesn’t work, students and teachers fail.
This is a very popular video, I looked through the comments, and many on tiktok said:
EvaInScotland: I’d be not different if I’d be growing now – we had a magic of ‘unknown’ ‘needed to be explored and discovered’ ‘waiting for it to be available’ now. All is instantly accessible there is no wander no imagination no ‘unknown’ It’s more realistic but as well more depressing I don’t blame them
SLD454: I’m sorry have to disagree with you on parents, it’s their responsibility to raise their kid, or they shouldn’t have any
shit_and_giggles: BRING
BACK
Jackie: Parents really need to step up and support the teacher in the schools and making sure their kids are showing respect to their teachers, all staff and
Armandalea: parents. PARENTS! This is a parent problem.
SHRECC: I know you’re trying to avoid blaming the parents but ultimately, everything starts at home.
user3043964493022: i 100% agree! i see it also at the preschool level… we are assaulted daily by students that appear to be having withdrawal from phones and ipads
2023-06-02 08:32 Quickly use the rolling pin: [doge] Look at the beauty of the country. As a front-line teacher, I can tell you with certainty that if no major changes are made, the schools in our country will be like this in a few decades. On the way from school yesterday, I was still thinking about whether I would be old enough to retire before the situation gradually evolved to the bottom line I could bear, and I came across this video today. No way, students can’t touch it, and teachers can’t control it. The problem encountered is similar to what the teacher described. It’s just that there may be only 2-4 such people in a class at present, and the strong head teacher can still suppress them, but the effect is getting worse and worse. Because he beat someone, his parents called the police, and he dared to scold when the police came, and he was fine after scolding. The power of this kind of example is much faster for students to learn than a role model who studies hard [laughs and cry]
2023-06-02 09:32 Miandou doo: My friend has quit his job as a teacher in the past few years. I can’t take it anymore. Students don’t like to study and can’t even persuade them, they dare to point the teacher’s nose and scold; the little bastard speaks obscenely to his female classmate in front of the teacher, and pretends to beat the teacher when he is attacked by the teacher. ;Please feel free to parents, parents don’t care
2023-06-02 09:36 Zhuzi Sangkui: This is the social process. When our country’s material culture is rich, children will see their parents indulge in society and be full of unrealistic hopes for the bubble economy society. The manifestation of irrational prosperity in the education system is commonly known as impetuousness. Studying for the rise of China? I’m sorry, China has already risen, what books do I still read, that was the last century.
2023-06-02 18:48 -On the tree-: There is a lower grade class in my sister’s school. A little girl wore a pair of overalls one day. Surrounded by people saying chicken, you are too beautiful, singing and dancing basketball and other stalks… Afterwards, they would laugh at that little girl whenever they met her, and those with mobile phones even took pictures of her, and put her face on the emoticons everywhere spread
In the end, the little girl transferred to another school, and the group of young children continued to happily play tricks with other people’s emojis
2023-06-02 17:26 Heavy surfers here: This phenomenon is global. Under the premise of lack of discrimination, minors are dragged away by the media and taught badly by the surrounding environment. Parents and teachers are the only The power of the two strands of teaching is also weakening day by day. can only say speed up
[Laughing and crying][Laughing and crying]
2023-06-03 18:41 Forsannn: Chinese schools are barely maintained by the remnants left by the iron-blooded education of the previous generation [funny]
2023-06-03 22:50 dQ_Qb: But you can’t control anything now, don’t you know that those parents make excuses for their children not to listen to class, saying that sixteen years old is still young, it’s just a baby, it doesn’t matter if they don’t listen to class, the teacher can Compulsory make-up lessons after class, and even more excessively throwing the child to the school, and then the child would not go home if he wanted to go home, because the room at home was given to the younger brother, the child had suicidal tendencies, and the psychological teacher wanted the parents to participate Counseling, parents say that the school is to blame for the accident
2023-06-02 23:54 Cold car platter: I taught in a remote American public school with a bad ranking. unwilling to control. If a student skips class, you can only ask the physical education teacher in the teaching office to arrest him, and the director of the teaching office is just messing with each other… You have to report them immediately because if they fall or something happens to them while skipping class, you are waiting to go to jail. Less than 5% of the students are good students, and the others are all gangsters. It’s useless to contact the parents. Their family believes in a cult and gangsters. After working for a semester, I quit my job immediately, and I can’t afford it.
2023-06-02 22:42 Actinium Eiridium Awow: True. Now some children have fully realized that their downward freedom is guaranteed. Teachers cannot use any means on them other than oral education. It only takes one child in a class to have the audacity to skip homework and find the teacher unable to enforce it. Then it only takes one term for thick-skinned to become almost impudent, and one child to become many. But parents still have a lot of time to take care of it. It’s not that the teacher gives the responsibility to the parents, but that I have finished the approval and correction. I hope the parents can see the error rate of the child and sign it. Parents don’t have time. Some parents are really under a lot of pressure in life, so I won’t say anything; some parents rub their feet outside by posting on Moments, and their children forcefully procrastinate for a whole week without writing their homework, and they don’t make up after school, using the excuse of training classes Run away. Such children are rare these days, and the effect they have on other children is almost devastating. I don’t want to hate children, I can only say that I have worked hard to warm some children for two years [smile]. Now I just hope that others can hold on and not be misled. And, if everyone is really under pressure in life, don’t have children. It is really a crime to have no time to care about the children and to have children, torturing the children and torturing themselves.
2023-06-02 11:30 Mint Mintsugar: As a teacher, it’s strange to do it this time. Let me tell you that what the teacher in the picture said is true, and now we have a tendency to change in this direction. Compared with us when we were young, children nowadays are a bit lawless. They are not afraid of failing exams, being scolded and punished, and looking for their parents, and the education department stipulates that corporal punishment is not allowed. They only care about whether they can find fun in the future and make a fool of themselves
2023-06-02 04:08 BaozBao: Some tiktok challenges in the United States (very popular, many people do “slap the teacher challenge”, “make trouble in class challenge”, “swear at teacher challenge”, “steal school toilet challenge” These are some and there are many videos
2023-06-02 14:28 DXM: Haha, if anyone has followed the news in Sydney, they will know that there was a fire in a building in the city center last week, more than 140 people were forced to move, and the whereabouts of 2 homeless people are unknown , and the ones who set the fire were two middle and high school students.
2023-06-02 22:05 Xiaoyi’s pillow bed is gone: Reply to @你怎么不吃食Y: New Police Story. The problem is that doing things is not exclusive to the rich second generation, children from ordinary families will do the same… If it is only the rich second generation doing things, not so many people are unlucky, after all, the number is limited, and now every school, whether it is private or public, All-girls school or co-ed school, there are crazy kids…
2023-06-02 17:13 To the center of the lake: The Internet is educating children all the time. Children today are far less innocent than before. The Internet has given them too many “means”, such as sensitive topics such as depression. Some students Well aware of its deterrent effect on parents and teachers, I went online to search for corresponding symptoms to pretend to let teachers and parents compromise with him [smile] [smile] [smile] [smile] I would like to ask what can be done, if you don’t believe me, He self-mutilates for you to see, you compromise, he thinks this method is really easy to handle teachers and parents is really great (not denying the high incidence of depression among students
2023-06-03 02:47 Parallel to the Old Times: To a large extent, it is because children have been exposed to too much knowledge that adults should know from the Internet, which leads to a different behavior pattern from the previous children. In the past, children basically received knowledge from their parents and teachers, but now the information on the Internet is messed up, and the role of parents and teachers as knowledge givers has become smaller [Spicy Eyes]
2023-06-03 07:13 Silvia’s cat: This is true. The students I contacted were all in grades four to six. The most shocking sentence I heard that day was that if my mother didn’t buy me an iPad, I pretended to be depressed, she must have bought it? ? ? ! ! ! !
2023-06-02 07:08 JackFang75: As someone who has taught in the United States, the content of the video is more realistic. Ordinary people will never imagine that some students can come up with new human ideas to cause damage and trouble. From the trivial, every afternoon, the toilet is blocked by students deliberately stuffing paper. Drug use in the toilet is nothing new to them. Every semester, the local police will bring drug-sniffing dogs to the school to search for possible drugs, and they never go empty every time. Through the observation of teaching experience in private high schools and public schools in the United States. I found that the comparison between the two schools I have been in is almost the same. In public schools, students can also behave like different species. The public schools I teach have some of the most assertive, motivated and polite students I’ve ever seen in my life, many of whom are the first in their families to be admitted to college and change their lives. I’ve also seen a few unmotivated, perpetually angry and confused young men. If a student has no goals and no hope, then his destructive power to the classroom is quite terrible.
2023-06-02 10:44 Muba, a girl who eats soil: I feel that we also have this trend now. My colleague is in a junior high school. Her son was stolen some time ago. The teacher caught the thief and scolded him, but the parents were not happy and came to the school to make a scene.
2023-06-02 10:56 Xiao Xiao Gu Gu Da: Before watching: It’s great to have a salary increase of 10,000 a year [oh hoo] After watching: I deserve it [curling lips]
2023-06-02 21:37 Village entrance_Master Hu: After working for five years, I have let go of the complex of helping others. I can’t do anything when a child makes a mistake, and I can’t say anything serious. I can only be influenced by love. It’s better for everyone to mess up together, and I will keep my public school iron job.
2023-06-03 09:29 Floating Life_Sneaking leisure: There is no need for a group of people in their twenties and thirty-somethings to rely on their own experience, and don’t even think that it’s been 23 years now, which is more than a dozen years after your elementary school It’s been twenty years, and two or three rounds of curriculum reform have passed. I couldn’t understand the way people filled in the college entrance examination that day. Your memory can’t represent the current predicament of front-line education at all.
2023-06-03 19:38 Flying Little White Rabbit: I’m 27 this year, and I met a 14-year-old boy in the game of playing king. After graduating from junior high school, I went out to drink with my classmates, smoked electronic cigarettes to pretend to take pictures, and skipped classes to go to Internet cafes. I, an old country boy, was scared to death. I asked him what was wrong, and he said nothing. He wanted to live a different life and said he felt like learning It’s meaningless, I want to start a business to make a lot of money, but my mind is full of business with hundreds of millions, saying that I want to partner with my brother. There is also a younger brother who is in the second year of high school. He said that he doesn’t want to go to school. He used to study sports. He said that the coach of the swimming pool earns 20,000 a month every minute, so he doesn’t need to go to college. Make a lot of money” or find some excitement, I feel that reading is useless. I even despise reading a little bit, I really think this is not a good thing.
2023-06-02 11:04 Pasuk: This is also the case in China, especially in some marginal areas. I don’t know if it’s because of the indoctrination of the parents or what. Children may not care about studying at the age of 8 or 9, and junior high school students are even more unnatural. Said Mr. Du , even Mr. Rape, like the pure earth emperor, used to have absolute authority in this part of the area, and he played very well, but the quality was not very high, but the students were really afraid, and the parents listened to the teacher. Now the teacher can do something or It’s just an act to scare the students, and they may be videotaped to smear the work, and the work may be gone. In addition, the span of grades D to C is very difficult. I can’t see progress, and students don’t want to learn. Students don’t want to learn. Teachers have to teach, a lot The teacher just put it badly, happy education loves to learn but not to love to write and not to write. Students feel happy and can ride on the teacher’s head [Goodbye][Goodbye]
2023-06-03 01:54 The head of the fish is very big: God, it’s like this in Beijing. The student I brought myself is only in the fourth grade, and I can’t attend class at all. She said that the teacher spends half of a class in charge of discipline , the other half of the time is because the teacher messed it up and left it alone. I can’t control it. I can’t beat or scold. Children of all ages know that if they are beaten and scolded by the teacher, they will sue the Education Bureau. When the teacher talks, I can only find the tutor, that is, I will do it again
2023-06-02 18:15 The wind chime is cute: I think of my foreign teacher in high school. She often told us in class that it was great to teach in China, because when she was teaching in the UK, not only could she not control the students, she even Will be beaten by students [spicy eyes]
2023-06-02 00:49 Tenth-level performing artist withdrew: This kind of phenomenon cannot be simply attributed to happy education and a high degree of freedom. Its essence is the lack of moral education. The result of the public education system leaving moral education entirely to family education is that like father, like son. At the same time, ample extracurricular time makes children deeply influenced by community culture: if a child lives in a middle-class community or a wealthy area, the possibility of going astray is naturally very low; Violence and crime, even the air is permeated with depravity, it is very difficult to think of silt without pollution, and it is precisely these low-level parents who almost give up moral education for their children, and the end result is that children follow in their footsteps, Be like them.
2023-06-03 01:13 A ghost: A junior high school teacher who is about to resign said that junior high school children do have this trend. I have just sent a class of students to the first year of high school after working for five years. It’s very new, this first year of junior high school has completely changed. Sometimes they can’t even go to class. They really like to have fun. For example, a student in our class was reprimanded by the head teacher the day before for destroying public property, but he still went to do it the next day. The same thing happened. Our homeroom teacher is already a very strong male teacher at 1.8 meters. I really feel that the quality of the students is getting worse and worse.
2023-06-02 21:21 Village entrance_Master Hu: Our principals have clearly told me that they are not here for school, they are here to hangout, and all we can do is give them a conversation. They are not here Those who read, they come to play with friends, but the only thing we can do is talk to them. The entire society is under the operation of capital, and everything a teacher does will be severely magnified. You don’t know what you do one day and you will become popular on tiktok, so in order to protect ourselves, we can only do nothing. Because the people at the top of the pyramid don’t want too many challengers, let them force everyone to indulge them in the name of “love”, “protection”, “respect”, and “free will” when they have the least self-control. Now that I have let go of my obsession with helping others, isn’t it good to keep my job in a public school with good wages and benefits?
2023-06-02 10:16 Chidori サラ: The current Internet is really not suitable for children. The post-90s feel that reading is useless because they have passed the age of reading. They rolled over at the age of reading. The economy is very bad. The situation has become useless to study. These words are not qualified to say to people who are still in school. It is too early to think that reading is useless before you have developed basic scientific literacy. This video is very true. When I was studying in North America, I obviously felt that the old people and the older generation were obviously more enlightened than the young people. On the contrary, they did not discriminate against foreigners, and the young people were just complete bastards.
2023-06-02 12:52 Memories are a funeral for youth: Reading is always useful, but now the utilitarianism attached to reading is too strong. The result of linking reading well with finding a good job is a good job post When the back is full, you can’t go up if you have a good book, and the people in front occupy the seats and can’t get down, and there are no good new jobs. I feel like reading is useless…
2023-06-02 08:55 Handsome Yiku: The whole world is similar. In small counties in our third-tier cities, a lot of township primary schools were cancelled, and all of them were concentrated in Xincheng Middle School. I have classmates who work as teachers in it, and the formal establishment says that none of the students in it want to learn. Those who play vibrato games all day don’t care about registering or caring. score.
2023-06-02 12:55 Zhou Xingzhou: I am in the same situation. In the middle schools in the urban-rural areas, many schools have withdrawn and merged. The students are basically rural students. They can do all kinds of things every day, and they don’t study at all. , and even the basic knowledge is so lacking that it seems that you have never been to school before. Bad habits are learned one by one
2023-06-02 13:07 Chu Jinhu: I have a student whose family spoils him badly. As long as he loses his temper, his family will agree to everything. It is said that the child has a big temper, so I can’t control it. My blood pressure went up. The first time he wanted to achieve his goal by playing tricks and throwing a tantrum, he should reject him severely and let him know that he can’t do it. Will he continue? At first, this kid also played temper with me, but later he won’t, because I don’t listen to his nonsense at all! Then he went home and messed around with his parents, asking them to come and talk to me. I can’t refuse, and I’m too lazy to refuse. You parents don’t even know the seriousness. Follow him. He can beat his mother in sixth grade now. Will he be okay in the future?
2023-06-02 10:07 zjleen: This situation in China is becoming more and more serious. Nowadays, many elementary school students are full of swear words, parents dote on them, and schools dare not control them. This is a vicious circle.
2023-06-02 16:39 Pretending to be in Australia: I used to be a teacher in Australia. What he said is extremely common in European and American countries. Like young teachers, they are usually brought into the class, and it is common for them to be greeted by the f word of students. The most unacceptable thing is that there is no consequence. The student came back after two days of reflection at home. My colleagues also met those who pulled shit in the grass at noon, tore up books in class, moved tables (not chairs) and threw them outside the classroom, and beat teachers. I don’t know what the future holds for the Chinese education system, but the western countries are indeed accelerating crazily. Half of our two years as teachers in this class have already run [tsundere]
2023-06-03 12:37 Mr. Ling Huan: This is my high school. Recalling my painful memories, when I was in high school, because of the reform of the new college entrance examination, I was assigned to a particularly terrible class. In that class, I contradicted the teacher, fought, fought and played with my mobile phone in class. Don’t play too much. I was the only one in the class who studied hard, and looked like a different kind to them. . There was an nt who took the lead in class one time during self-study in the evening, and I was in a bad mood at that time, so I yelled in a low voice. not him. Every time I go to the classroom, my mentality is not good. Later, I took the college entrance examination. Although the university I was admitted to was not particularly good, I personally felt that I was worthy of myself. Those three years were like hell. Those students, like the video said, don’t care about anything except eating, drinking and having fun. Not even life cares.
2023-06-02 02:20 Coldman: Obeying discipline abroad has become a nerd and a target of bullying. Everyone does some outrageous things for the sake of being cool and being in a group, and the more outrageous the better, it’s already a defense anyway. And the social atmosphere is also conniving. In East Asia, the swing and roll are relatively balanced, at least only when the roll does not move. Those who have been open since childhood are considered a minority.
2023-06-03 04:38 Runaway Zhengtai Jinying: The fact is that many public schools and community schools in the United States have always been like this. It was the most serious time in the 1970s and 1980s. Many colleges and universities have become popular for promiscuity and drug use, and cheating and truancy are even more serious. Potluck. What is rotten is the children and education of these low-level and ordinary families. The children of the rich class receive elite education from private colleges and universities that have not changed. These are what the United States really relies on. As for the children of the majority of working people, they are just consumption by the country It’s just a product, it can’t fundamentally affect the future of the United States, and the high-level will naturally not pay too much attention
2023-06-02 22:22 My little bear is very bored: The baby boomers in the 1960s were educated from birth as workers to build the four modernizations, so they resolutely joined the state-owned industry. Thirty years later, they found themselves abandoned in the face of commercialization, so they snapped their fingers. The wave of baby boomers in the 1990s was taught from birth that all things were low-quality, and they had no way out until they were admitted to university, so they resolutely entered Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. Thirty years later, they found themselves abandoned in front of the real estate market, so they had Kong Yiji’s gown. So they thought that if they wanted children thirty years later to feel at ease as cheap labor, they still needed happy education, so the future has come.
2023-06-02 07:26 Piaget boss: In American high schools, you must go to a private high school, preferably a religious school, because the school rules of these two high schools are very strict compared to public schools. I graduated from a private religious high school. I remember It is very clear that in my last year of high school, a classmate was considered disrespectful by the teacher and even stayed in school because he said good boy. So you will find that the videos you see on the Internet that feel that high school life is very good are all rich private schools. People so don’t believe anything. Most high school students in the United States have a very good life.
2023-06-02 10:04 MIKUKU Sauce: Very true [laughing and crying] The Catholic private high school I attended had 100+ students when I enrolled, and only 80 students left when I graduated, and a few transferred in during the period. In private high schools, students can be expelled for a trivial matter, and it is frightening to go to school. In our school, if you are late for 5 times, you will get a detention, and if you are late for three detentions, you will be expelled. The only way to eliminate detention is to come to the school alone on weekends to clean the whole weekend.
2023-06-02 01:31 Clumsy bottle starbucky: It has nothing to do with happy education. The education here has been exam-oriented for more than 20 years, and the quality and discipline of students have obviously deteriorated. Ordinary public schools in coastal cities, and there is no such thing since the post-90s Severe corporal punishment, at that time most people would still do their study tasks on time. The post-10s who are teaching now will not hand in their homework even if they urge him face to face
2023-06-02 12:09 Hot and sour fans: The current situation in China is not much better. Teachers are often reported, children do not write homework, and teachers are abused in class. You have to be careful in copying, and you need teachers to give grades. It is hellish difficulty. In addition, the salary has dropped again and again. To be honest, if there is no shortage of staff, there will probably be a large number of teachers leaving.
2023-06-02 10:13 cya12go: My cousin is only in the first grade, and she has already scored 0 points in the Chinese test. She goes home every day and uses Douyin. Once she sees her doing something wrong, she goes up to teach her to scold her a few words, and she is directly rejected. Grandma said me instead, meaning that she was too young to scold me. (Go to the canteen to get things without paying and go home and the boss comes to ask for money and can’t you scold?) Today’s students are not tutoring problems, what else can they be? Parents let their children watch Douyin. Remember the saying that 7 years old is 80 years old. It’s even more powerful. At the age of 3, it will be 80.
2023-06-01 17:40 htik0425: After all, teachers can only use class time for education, and the current Internet is “educating” all the time
2023-06-02 08:32 What to eat bot today: The education system of Laozhong and North America are really two absolute extremes. When I was studying in China, I spent the most tense and painful days of my life, leaving me with chronic gastritis and stomach cramps. Later, I fled to North America and entered a public school. I found that some students would make fun of the teacher, and even insult the teacher directly in class. It was really shocking beyond words. As for why escape… [Sunglasses] After all, I used to be a member of Hebei Hell Arena.
2023-06-02 17:24 nnnyyytttPearl Candy: We also have this situation here. My mother is a junior high school teacher. Just because a student was distracted in class, my mother went to remind her. The next day, the parents of the student rushed to my mother The office slapped my mother and forced her to kneel down and apologize, otherwise there would be no end [cover face]. After that, my mother never cared about the students being distracted in class [cover face].
2023-06-02 14:42 DDA: Some time ago, I met a few middle school girls on the bus, full of dirty words, I don’t know where I thought they were punks… This is still a middle school student in Beijing… [Stay]
2023-06-02 14:12 Drinking milk tea without spitting pearls: In the top elementary school in the city, a student in the second grade slapped 3 students in the face, and even slapped those who tried to persuade them to fight. There is no way to control the students, and now other students have started to slap others, what do you say about the education that cannot kill chickens and monkeys
2023-06-02 13:44 mlybl: Let alone primary school students, college students are not much better now. University teachers are not old enough to dare to catch cheating openly. There was a teacher who caught cheating before and apologized because the student was caught cheating and claimed to commit suicide. The problem now is that parents dote on their children too much, and the school is most afraid of parents making trouble. Let me put it here, as long as your parents dare to hang big-character posters at the school gate for a few days, the school will negotiate with you on any conditions. Teachers in our school jumped to the main teaching building to pay 50,000. If the students jumped, as long as the parents dared to continue to make trouble, they could pay 300,000+.
2023-06-02 07:08 Mainly chic: Everyone is the same, it’s all because there is no hope, China is better now because there is still an upper limit for papers, at least you can live more comfortably in the future after taking the postgraduate entrance examination , but the upper limit is to be able to survive, no matter what, you can’t become the group of people who enjoy being in the spotlight. Naturally, some people made it bad, and everything was just for fun. When you find that no matter how hard you try, you are just struggling in the mire, then the most perfect life is a joke
2023-06-02 10:25 arqalm: Today’s children are very world-weary, and their spiritual sustenance is a group of traffic stars. Parents and school teachers are not as effective as stars [silent]
2023-06-02 10:15 Yu Ren: I have a saying, it’s a bit like Chinese elementary schools in the late 1960s and early 1970s. I don’t know anything else, but primary and secondary schools in Beijing were really chaotic at that time, especially military universities. Children in the hospital, there is a movie called Sunny Day, which is about this period
2023-06-02 10:17 The name was withdrawn again: Public schools are like this. In Canada, you can smell several difficult smells if you walk in a public school. What about [tv_white eyes]
I thought a lot about it, but couldn’t say it. My own child is in a similar environment now. well.
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