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In the eyes of many people around me, I am a very powerful person – at a young age, I can achieve a level beyond what most people of my age can do.
But I know for myself that I’m actually not a particularly good person – I have an ordinary background, live an ordinary life, go to an ordinary school, and there is nothing extraordinary. Even what others see as good achievements seem to me to be mediocre achievements – easily attainable by smart people.
And if you ask — then why can you do it and others can’t? I think, this may stem from my good at self-PUA. I will continue to put more pressure on myself, and constantly adjust my limits under the pressure of pressure.
Through self-PUA, I have indeed been forcing myself to become better – not necessarily much better than what I have done, but I have indeed surpassed myself.
However, I also know that this state is not sustainable, nor is it really strong – I will one day build up all the stress to an explosion, and then start all over again. I also can’t handle everything as well as those exceptionally good people.
However, fortunately, I realized this, so, let go of myself and accept that I can’t do what I can’t do.
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