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△ 282｜Solar maintenance, the moon can be replaced
The phrase first appeared on a dirty toilet partition, and neither where it appeared nor the original phrase “solar repair” had anything to do with the word romance. Until someone took a half-sentence “moon is replaceable” after it, giving this misplaced sentence an inexplicable romanticism.
I remember when I first learned about the style of “Romanticism” as a student, the teacher explained it vaguely and we understood it differently – at that time I didn’t know the “reason” that made this literature There are completely different evaluations of style in the mouths of different students. It was a book review assignment, and I wrote a review for a book I just finished reading recently. As a result, I just finished reading “The Sorrows of Young Werther”, so I wrote a review on what I think is romanticism.
Although my book review has been praised by the teacher, it seems that I have received mixed reviews among my classmates, and my personality has even been evaluated because I reviewed “romanticism”. Why would anyone think that Commenting on a romantic work is associated with corruption and vulgarity.
But I’m not allowed to explore this “reason” (I later learned that the reason why romanticism was identified as corruption came from those families who experienced the Cultural Revolution, a correct revolutionary education for children) – fortunately in my family There are a lot of corrupt things, such as the romantic novels with erotic and fantasy covers that my mother put on the bedside. People know – why this is so, because there were other “rules” circulating among classmates at that time, for example, boys could not read romance novels, after reading it, they would become fake girls (sissy in Chongqing dialect), or It’s because these works are all three vulgar works, and people will become stupid and bad after reading them.
This kind of logic between men and women has continued almost until high school. For example, when my classmates know that I have read Dumas’ novels and even “Jane Eyre”, they form a certain sense of The “masculine” league, contrasting their masculinity against me. I’m embarrassed to say that, in fact, I even watched “My Secret Life” in the Victorian period, which depicts a male sex documentary…
“Romanticism” is also classified as “feminine” in this rule that men and women are different.
When I was a child, I spent a long time in a comic shop where books could be rented. Sometimes I even helped the owner of the comic shop look at the shop and help her record the rental and return records. There are men and women who rent comic books, so the bookshelves will also be arranged according to the way of “different between men and women”. Cardamom Sakura is mainly based on “female” perspective comics. Of course, I was in the “late stage” – at least when I was tall enough to get the top comic book, I learned that the comics in that row were 18-ban pornographic comics.
I have a gentleman’s contract with the owner of the comic shop. I can read comics at will, but I am responsible for helping her organize the bookstore and return the comics in the way of “different between men and women” – this is not difficult, at least the comics at that time were still in place. It can be seen from the style of painting that it belongs to a male or female image. The style of Inoue Takehiko and CLAMP can be seen with the naked eye. The difference between tough and delicate. There are several middle schools near the comic store, so there are many students who rent comics. Occasionally, I meet boys who rented a manga from a woman and secretly returned it. Seeing that the same man who rented the manga was the same boy, they would be very “shame”, but I usually accost me without a sentence: “This book Have you seen the ending of the book?” “Ah, I’ve finished reading it.” “It’s so miserable, isn’t it?”
Immediately, the embarrassment and shame on his face would disappear in an instant, maybe he found out that there was another boy who had secretly watched these women’s cartoons like him.
I have acted in dramas in college, and because there are more girls in drama clubs, it is easy to be biased towards the “female perspective” when selecting dramas – of course, this is not what I think, but what other boys in the theater group think. They even make nuances of masculinity for “Hamlet” and “Romeo and Juliet” – anyway, every time you choose a show, there’s bound to be a “gender difference” discussion, and my assessment is: not that good. Well, there are a lot of things to do.
At the annual meeting of many companies, a group of big men put on women’s clothes to perform on stage, causing the audience to burst into laughter. In fact, I don’t really understand the “logic” in this. If they want to express “equality between men and women” in this way, they just need to turn the gents who are usually high, unsmiling, and even harassing other female colleagues in the workplace. All of a sudden, it becomes a bloated body, exaggerated movements, ugly and exaggerated makeup, and unadorned body hair (don’t forget, these are the bottom lines that men are not allowed to touch by women), this kind of sexual transformation will make the difference between men and women A certain sense of “balance” has been reached? Instead, I think it’s a form of humiliation, a kind of Body shame on women with ugly and comical images. Of course, no one agreed with me because they thought it was a rare opportunity to see the “other side” of those men.
Conversely, those men who dress themselves up as harlequins can prove their insistence that “men and women are different” in this Body Shame game: Look, I’m dressing up as a woman now, and you even think I’m more Man, I can’t hide my masculinity – go to bed with me!
I have had a strange rebelliousness since I was a child. The more “men and women are different” literature, art, logic and thinking, the more rebellious I will look and understand. When “romanticism” was labeled as a woman, I found that many romantic works were actually written by men, who delicately fit themselves into the characters to feel the subtle emotional fluctuations; To prove that they are masculine enough, it may be written by women, because they know what kind of explicit and suggestive men want to see. People are happy to label everything that is different between men and women, but they never think that the bottom layer of them is the mystery of the exchange of yin and yang.
Even the title, “solar repair” is a masculine realistic sentence, because solar energy represents a kind of machinery, technology, and is full of masculine colors; and “the moon can be repaired” is a feminist romantic sentence, because the moon does not Possibly repaired, it’s nihilistic, fantasy, and meaningless.
There is no conclusion or argument in today’s content. I just record some of the “gender differences” that I have experienced, because there may be differences between “men and women” in the conclusion.
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