WeChat friends

23/08/2023 /

Original link: https://github.com/yihong0618/gitblog/issues/272

WeChat is probably the most important tool for people in mainland China. It took me a long time this year to delete my WeChat friends from 500+ to 260, and write an article to record it. Of course, I would also like to thank WeChat for blowing up my account, which can avoid a lot of possible embarrassment in the future. After all, people like me will not be surprised if they blow up their account.

why

  • At first, it was because of anger: anger at people who have no empathy for anything, wondering why they are in my WeChat friends. Of course, the main reason is that last year’s epidemic prevention was too difficult. I can’t become friends with those who sing praises for the epidemic prevention policy.
  • Then it’s because of fear: I’m afraid that one day, because of some things forwarded or expressed in my circle of friends, these people will be reported as spies by these people. Maybe I’m worth 50w. .
  • In the end, it was because of the boundaries. When someone I didn’t know kindly reminded me to be careful when I spoke, I didn’t know why I was so angry, probably because of the powerlessness of the further compressed space for expression.

how

  1. The first one to be deleted was someone who couldn’t remember who it was
  2. The next step is to pull WeChat to the end and pull it up backwards. People who meet the above three points and have never spoken to each other after adding it, or have not spoken to each other for several years
  3. After that, it was a very difficult screening process, and many people who may not have an intersection with him in this life or who do not want to have an intersection with him have been deleted.

next

  1. I have also reduced the use of WeChat a lot, and I even want to take the initiative to blow up the account and add real friends again
  2. Continue to try not to add any WeChat groups, except for those who are forced to
  3. Express what you need to say, be careful what the fuck you say

hope

  1. I hope all the friends left behind are worthwhile friends
  2. I hope that people who think I hate it also delete me directly
  3. I hope one day I can use WeChat

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