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In reality, I don’t really like to communicate with others. Two or three months ago, I retested my MBTI and found that my introversion attribute was still very high, which verified this judgment.
However, as a Keji fox swimming in a river full of English fish, “speaking” has become an important part of improving my professional level (the four major aspects of language learning, listening, speaking, reading and writing), so when I entered school, I planned to Try your best to change the status quo – this month alone I participated in at least two group interviews, trying hard to get in touch with some friendly people.
Last weekend I went for an interview with the student union of the college, but due to my own negligence I did not submit the application form. However, with the idea that maybe it would work, I went to the interview site despite the drizzle and talked with my senior sister there. After saying hello, I waited in fear (because I had no idea about it and no manuscript or anything else was prepared). Fortunately, the interview process went smoothly, and the seniors in the Information and Technology Department did not make things too difficult for me. Just when I was writing my last weekly diary, I was successfully hired. (But it may also be because there are too few people interviewing in this department…)
To be honest, I was quite nervous during the interview process because it was the first time I was cross-examined by the interviewer (I really don’t know how to put it, so I’ll just say this) in front of so many people (explain that the interview was in a large conference room) , the first few rows are the interviewers, and behind are the people waiting for the interview), but after the interview, I felt a huge relief in my heart.
I still remember what the teacher said in the comprehensive English class this Wednesday when guiding us to speak. It probably meant that there is a difference between “social fear” and shyness. One is unwilling to take the initiative to talk to others, but once spoken, One can talk endlessly, and the other is one who is really unwilling to speak and is taciturn.
(But I really forgot the corresponding relationship between the two, and I was in a bad state when I was writing this. It rained all night and Bing couldn’t be opened, so I had to leave it for now.)
This sentence inspired me a lot. Later I thought that the word “social terrorism” itself is an artificially defined type. There is an old saying that rules are dead, but people can be alive (Diejia: there is no bad orientation that instigates law-breaking), and also That is to say, people can break out of this framework by doing some things.
I felt more relieved and everything felt clearer.
Oh, now that I’ve read this, are you wondering what the other interview was like? Although this matter does not belong to the scope of this week, I will briefly mention it in case anyone is curious:
There is an “Innovation and Entrepreneurship Center for Yisheng College Students” directly managed by the Academic Affairs Office (in layman terms, it is a science and technology innovation center + a bunch of related societies, but a zero-based version). Before the group visit at the open day, I thought I could get a contact. A good opportunity for science and technology, so when he talks about missionary I filled out their registration form at the speed of light, and then there was a long wait. After the registration, there was an interview, and after the interview there was a re-examination, but the re-examination had nothing to do with me, because I didn’t pass the interview at all (crying)
Since it is the first week of class, the academic pressure is not very high. Except for the comprehensive English and pronunciation courses that require real speeches, the rest can be completely transparent, which is really friendly to me for the time being. (
Of course, in order to solve this problem of my own, I also “spended 5 yuan more for a 3D printer” ( source ) and joined an association of makerspaces. I went there four or five times, but before this week’s seminar, I I didn’t really think about the meaning of the money I spent until I walked late at the seminar the night before I went home and got the following two things for nothing:
I just think it’s money well spent.
Of course, the atmosphere in their association is relatively harmonious and friendly (core values?). At least at night
I vaguely remember an embarrassing scene at that time – in addition to the sharing meeting, there was also a free experience of the laser engraving process, and the finished product could be taken away (roughly like the one above), but, I almost stayed there One night there, no two people came at all. When the senior girl from the modeling department asked in the group if anyone else was coming, I put a fishhook in the group and asked if those who had not signed up could come. Of course, in the end, it was because The reason for taking photos of the scene was discovered, and the subsequent conversation was extremely awkward for a time, but then we let go (thanks to the phrase “don’t be so formal”), and even opened the figma to show off my design. I was praised as “knowing more than me” (but I think it’s more because I use Linux…) for the operation of drafts and so on. Then I just looked at the process and brought a copy of the nfc light from the last event (
There is another future technology industry conference this week, but it has little to do with me, and the performance is as unattractive as a military training parade (except for the drone performance that cannot be seen from the back row), so I won’t write about it.
Okay, finally we’ve come to the last part (look up). Although I’ve been very busy this week, I haven’t learned much. But another week passed smoothly . Well, even though we label people all the time and may use it as a standard by which to judge others. “Social fear” is actually one of the “labels” used to divide groups, but we cannot be constrained by this and not make breakthroughs.
The mbti test is more about labeling yourself and looking for those “people who are all the same in the world” in the vast sea of people. As for its reliability, it depends entirely on yourself.
Finally, I would like to quote a comment in the large-scale documentary “The Legend of INFJ-T 4W5” :
The world is wrong because it is always on the right path.
Only after you truly accept yourself as you are can others accept you as you are.
Xiao Sheng: I originally wanted to use Vercel’s og image playground to write the cover, but it didn’t work out because of cross-domain image issues, so I decided to use figma to design the cover for the time being…
And the background of the cover was taken by me at school on the last day before going home, but who asked me?
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