What kind of wife are you looking for? Criteria for finding a wife

Yesterday, I had a face-to-face meeting with a netizen in Cambridge , and the netizen found out that he came from Ireland, and he was 12 years younger than me, so he talked about the criteria for finding a partner.

TLDR; When looking for a wife, don’t (only) look at the value of the face, but pay attention to more important qualities such as personality, dealing with people and taking care of the family. Of course, sexual harmony is also very important.

In today’s society, people have different standards for finding a partner. Some people think that appearance is the most important thing, because attractive appearance can make people feel happy in daily life. This is human nature. If you see that the other party is ugly during a quarrel, it will be even more angry. However, I think looking for a wife should not only be based on appearance , but should pay more attention to character, conduct and family quality.

First of all, appearance is only short-lived. Appearance will decline over time, and the appearance of a woman will drop sharply after giving birth . No matter how beautiful your appearance is, with the passage of time, age and various pressures of life, your appearance will gradually decline. This is an inevitable law of nature. However, a fun and warm soul is able to remain alive and engaging through the years. A man of wit, humor and passion who can bring joy and meaning to life no matter what he looks like.

Secondly, character and the quality of dealing with people are the cornerstones of building long-term relationships. A beautiful exterior may attract you, but only true inner beauty will keep you. Personality determines a person’s values, ability to manage emotions, and the way he treats others. A kind, considerate and responsible person who can show genuine love and support in a marriage. On the contrary, a person who only focuses on appearance may lack depth and inner quality, which can lead to problems and conflicts in a marriage.

Finally, family care is an important part of marriage. A good partner should not only know how to take care of oneself, but also have a sense of family and responsibility. Taking care of the family does not just refer to doing housework or taking care of children, but caring, support and devotion to the family. A family partner creates a warm and harmonious family atmosphere where every member of the family feels a sense of belonging and security.

Of course, physical attractiveness may play a role in the initial mutual understanding of attraction. However, a true long-term relationship needs something more to hold it up. Whether it’s a picturesque visage or an imperfect appearance, ultimately time and the years take its toll. However, a charismatic soul can stay with you forever and bring you true happiness and fulfillment.

But a fun and kind soul can continue to bring you joy. When looking for a partner, we should look for inner qualities because that is the key to a stable, happy marriage .

Furthermore, seeking sexual harmony is indeed an important aspect of marriage, but it should not be the only criterion for choosing a partner. The establishment of sexual harmony requires the communication, understanding and cooperation of both husband and wife, and these qualities have nothing to do with appearance. Moreover, sexual harmony is only a part of married life, and a long-term and stable relationship needs more things to support, such as shared values, respect and trust.

Chicken soup text, in fact, after a long time of marriage , there is a high probability that they will look at each other unhappy.

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