In our life, we need to pay attention to the difference between affection and duty. Don’t mistake duty as love, and love as duty.
For example,
Suppose my current house is about to expire and I find a new vacant room. In order to reduce the overlap of tenancies, I agreed with the landlord to move in after two weeks.
But due to my own reasons, I had to check in early. At this time, I communicated with the landlord and asked if I could check in early? The landlord allowed me to check in early.
In this matter, the landlord agrees with me to stay in the hotel, and the landlord does not agree with me to stay in the hotel, because the date of the stay in our contract is two weeks later, even if I am not allowed to stay, I have to go out to the hotel because of the contract Signed is indeed two weeks later, which is also legal and reasonable.
In life, we need to thank others for their affection and for their help. But at the same time, we must also understand that there is nothing wrong with others doing things according to their duties. They just follow the contract, and there is no fault.
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