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Dear Wife:
Hi! I originally wanted to handwrite a love letter, but I haven’t written it for a long time, so I was very unfamiliar, and I wrote a few drafts that were rather scribbled and couldn’t be read, so I finally decided to use modern tools to print them out. Although I don’t have the feeling of writing it down by myself, it is more sincere and sincere. I hope you like it too.
It was unexpected and lucky to meet you for the first time. At that time, you and I were not necessarily in the state of wanting to fall in love, get married and have children the most. If you miss it, you may never have an intersection in your life. So, I am very grateful to my mother, our matchmaker.
Before you, you have been in love and blind date. You know all these, but they are different from you. Those people and things are part of the landscape of life. Now it seems that there are no regrets, no memories, and no nostalgia. After all, the best relationship was met by me, and the best person was caught by me in the second half of my life.
You may not know, but I like a saying very much: At that time, you were still very young, and everyone said you were beautiful. Now, I’m here to tell you that, to me, I think you’re more beautiful now than you were when you were young. I love your devastated face now more than your face then. This is a sentence from the French writer Duras’ “Love Letter”, and it is also a sentence I read when I was emotionally ignorant. I didn’t understand it at the time, but I liked it inexplicably.
From pregnancy to childbirth, you are at home full-time, with no friends or confidants. It is said that the mark of an adult starts from being independent and facing loneliness. I have had this moment, and I don’t want you to try it more and more, but I still let you try it for two years. I’m sorry and I blame myself for having to deal with so many of my problems.
You do not fall behind on housework such as laundry, cooking, sweeping, mopping, etc. You are diligent and thrifty at home, gentle and kind, and you are all your labels. Without flattery, you are better than you think. As for the temper problem that you and I have discussed many times, I don’t think it is a problem. I have seen you who are gentle, and I know where your temper comes from, so I cherish it even more.
I’m a person who doesn’t know much about romance. You often complain to me. On certain festivals, I didn’t express it, or I didn’t feel in love with me. Maybe I laughed it off, but I really understand you. some loss. So, I appreciate your tolerance and understanding.
A family, no one pays unilaterally, if there is, then the family is likely to fall apart. Sometimes you lose your temper and say that whoever makes you unable to work and make money depends on the person’s face. At that time, I will be very sad, because when you say this, I must have done something bad, so you will feel aggrieved, I will reflect, and I will be hard on you. Said, all mine is yours, everyone in this family can make money, but not everyone can take care of the baby 24 hours a day, and they have never slept peacefully. We are a family, we don’t need to work hard and have no resentment. What we need is someone who can express to each other without any scruples.
Today, we should be the best of us, and in our 30s, we have the strength, experience, confidence and companions to struggle; it is also the age where we should struggle the most. There are children who are learning from us, and we must set an example for them; There are parents who are looking forward to our growth, we have to do a good job and not let them down. At the same time, I also know that on such days, you will be very tired and bitter, but please believe me, I will resist more pressure, hold your hand and move forward, for you and me, for the parents of the children, for the sake of The family struggles for a better tomorrow.
Originally, the Qixi Festival should be more sweet words, and unknowingly wrote an inspirational love letter, but no matter what, I really love you. Thank you for your dedication to this family and for the love I feel for me every day from you. Finally, I use a sentence in “Love Letter” to wish our love.
For me, love is not a skin-to-skin relationship, it is not a vegetable and a meal, it is an immortal desire, a heroic dream in a tired life, and my dream is to grow old with you.
Sincerely, love you!
husband
July 7th, 2022
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