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At some point, I became more and more sensitive to how others were trying to manipulate my feelings, and with it came a gradual immunity. One of the reasons may be that the more people you see at work, the more numb you are and the more disgusted you are.
Emotional manipulation generally exploits weaknesses in my temperament to achieve their desired goals. Sadly, there is too much difference between emotional manipulation and sincere persuasion. The former is short-term profit, the latter is to convince people. After being toyed with a few times, I also understand the routine, and it is time to run away.
Moral kidnapping is actually more tiresome, and over time, I have learned to laugh at myself. The more you want to lift me up, the more I want to fall down first. Living in the vanity and fantasy of the bubble will hurt me in the end. What I learned during this period is that people have self-knowledge, and they will fall miserably if they look high or low.
After I developed immunity, I always wondered why some people use their intelligence in this kind of thing, and how much energy does these calculations consume. Maybe people have long been accustomed to it, and it is not a laborious thing to squeeze it. This makes me a little sad. How rude they were in their previous days, that they took these distorted ways of getting along with each other as natural.
The wall stands thousands of miles, and there is no desire to be rigid. People, you have to face your own emotions and desires, but you also have to understand what is deserved and what is driven by desire. The result of concluding a contract with the devil can only be that he himself also becomes a devil.
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