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“Sugar Beibei Diary” is a warm little book, which records the life of a mother (Hongmo) and her daughter (Bebe) for 21 years and the story of growing together. This is not a novel, there are no twists and turns, but in the ordinary and real life course, there are bitters and sweets, tears and laughter. Under Hongmo’s pen, countless ordinary moments flash with unique light, bit by bit It merged into a trickle, and finally converged into an ocean of love.
As the father of a ten-year-old boy, my child and I grew up exactly half the way that Hongmo and Beibei did. Our experience is very different from that of Hongmo and Beibei, but maybe all parent-child relationships have something in common. When reading the first half of “Sugar Beibei’s Diary”, I often smiled knowingly, because similar emotions or Psychologically, I have also experienced it. Beibei’s childish behavior is somewhat similar to that of my children, especially in the illustrations in the book. The naive but straightforward words in Beibei’s handwritten notes when she was a child clearly hide her own feelings. Child’s shadow.
Later, when I read that Bei Bei left home and was studying abroad alone, the first thing I remembered was the past when I was a student. At that time, I was looking forward to living in the school and leaving home, and then I thought that it would be a few years later. , this elementary school student in my family will also grow up, and then drag his luggage away. Since then, he will face various difficulties in study and life alone, and my old father’s heart has begun to worry. Children will eventually go to the world, leaving their parents, is a small back.
In addition to the stories of growing up, “Sugar Beibei Diary” also records what Hongmo thought at those moments. These thoughts let us further see a pair of real mother and daughter. They are not perfect, but also have They are too fragile, have lost control of their emotions, and have experienced entanglement and hesitation, but they have always loved each other deeply, so no matter what life has given them, they can always get through it together.
The adult world is inevitably stressful, and Hongmo once brought his emotions from work to his home. At this time, Beibei acted as a firefighter at home. She accepted such a mother generously, and responded to her mother’s soft words. A reminder, or a sweet kiss, all of a sudden pulls the thorns out of Mom’s body and makes Mom calm down.
In high school, Beibei became tired of school and took a break from school for a while. In almost all Chinese-style families, this is probably a big thing, and the Beibei family is also the same. Hongmo almost collapsed at one point, but in the end, she accepted such a Beibei tolerantly and took Beibei home. Accompanying her, no more talking about school, just the family lives as usual until Beibei gets through this difficult time.
Bei Bei is lucky to have a mother like Hong Mo who loves her deeply, and Hong Mo is also happy to have a daughter like Bei Bei who also loves her deeply. Parent-child relationship is an eternal topic. We have all been children, will be or have been parents. No matter what role you are now, open “Sugar Babe Diary”, maybe you can get some inspiration and even have some resonance .
Thank you Hongmo for bringing us such a book, a book about growth, happiness, and love.
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