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In the past six months, large factories have laid off workers. I don’t know if it’s because of market demand, or because some people who used to work in big factories have added new roles to themselves after being laid off. Many people now define themselves as “career planners” or “career growth mentors”. . It is not clear whether this profession can really solve the dilemma of most people (according to the research of relevant institutions, about 43.7% of people are in a state of confusion and confusion about their profession), or whether it is the same as those sold online courses, just read one or two books Relevant books, pretending to be experts, are sold in secondary packaging without changing the soup. But from what I feel, it seems to be talking about planning or planning-related things.
If I were to distinguish between plans, they could be roughly divided into three categories: passive plans, active plans, and unplanned plans. This time, I will mainly talk about passive planning.
After iris and I got married in 2014 and before he was born in 2016, the two of us were indeed living a wonderful two-person world. In addition to normal work, every weekend and vacation was enjoyable, whether it was a seasonal short trip Going out for a trip, or 1-2 domestic trips every year, you can almost try it without any worries. After his birth in July 2016, everything changed. There are a few more obvious ones:
- 1. At the beginning of work, it is difficult to accept business trips/field work for more than 1 month;
- 2. Attempts by institutions such as trusteeship classes, kindergartens, and kindergarten education;
- 3. Whether to buy a school district room to prepare for his learning environment in advance;
- 4. Accompanying learning of sports such as balance car, scooter, bicycle, roller skating, etc.;
- 5. From time to time, I have a cold and fever in the middle of the night. I often go to the hospital in the middle of the night. After leaving the hospital, it is bright outside…
The above content, before he was born, was completely unexpected and completely out of the plan, which is the so-called “passive plan”. It is possible to see here, some people will have fear of marriage and raising children, in fact, it is not necessary. Everything has two sides. If you consider the problem from another angle, you can see the positive side.
- 1. If you happen to be confused about your future work or life;
- 2. Looking at the peers around them, they have made some progress in work/life;
- 3. Although you have a girlfriend and are married, you are still as carefree as you were when you were not married;
- 4. I want to buy a house, but after watching it for a year or more, I don’t know how to choose;
- …
You might as well get married/have 1-2 children as soon as possible. When the child is born and grows up day by day, things that you have never thought about or planned, the continuous growth of the child will force you to plan and implement the plan. Take me as an example. Starting in September this year, my son will start primary school. As a parent, occasionally I always wonder: how to make his growth less detours/avoid some detours, whether to come up with a simple long-term plan, and then decompose it into detailed plans year by year as time progresses, if a certain There is an unexpected situation in the node, what is the remedy/curve to save the country. Up to now, this plan has not yet been formed, but since his birth in 2016, it has had a great impact on me. In addition to breaking my daily life, it also unexpectedly caused a change in my view of the next few decades. .
Of course, there are still many passive plans, such as finding a fairly reliable company to work for, and the company’s development is very good. This is something you did not expect during the interview at that time. The continuous development of the company forced you to master it. With more knowledge and skills, as the company grows, you also gain personal growth and even financial freedom.
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